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  • TipoftheDay (3/2/09): To Pay or Not To Pay?

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    March 2nd, 2009adminTip of the Day...

    Many dating experts will give you a different opinion on this one.
    If you ask a female expert, she’ll tell you to always pay.
    If you ask some male experts…they’ll tell you not to be a wuss and split the bill 50/50.
    There are a lot of different theories floating around on this one…

    If you want my opinion…
    I say, be classy. Pay for the first date.
    I always suggest to have a creative first date that doesn’t even involve a bill…
    But in the event that you go on a more traditional date…..then go ahead and pay.
    I’ve always paid for my dates…..
    And I’ll tell you why…
    If you’ve done everything right on the date thus far….and you’ve been a funny, charismatic, confident guy throughout the date…
    Then it really doesn’t matter if you pay for everything or you just pay your half.
    BUT…in the event that you’re out on a date with an “old school” girl who likes a chivalrous man…then you footing the bill is just a cherry on top of a good date.
    Even if you don’t see yourself going out on another date with this girl….still take the high road.
    After all….you invited her right??
    One of my favorite tests to see if this chick is worth my time…comes at the end of the night…
    I automatically grab the bill….if she offers to pay her half…then she’s solid.
    If she doesn’t…or worse yet…doesn’t even say thank you…
    Then you run, pal…..and you run fast…

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